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Love Does Not Envy

It (love) does not envy.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4

Are you satisfied with what you have?

Tom was excited. He had been saving up for over a year and was finally able to buy his own car. It was 15 years old and needed a good bit of work, but it was his. He looked at the car with pride…that is, until his buddy, Eric, drove up in a new Mustang. All of the sudden, his car was an embarrassment and he was irritated.

Envy is wanting what others have…or is it?

However, envy isn’t actually so much about what others have.

It’s really about not being content with what you have.

When Eric drove up in his new car, nothing had changed about Tom’s car except Tom’s perception of it. Instead of being proud of what he had worked so hard for, he was now embarrassed because it wasn’t a shiny new muscle car. He was no longer satisfied with what he had. He wanted something like what Eric had.

God blesses us with so much.

Sometimes He gives us a lot and sometimes little. The question isn’t how to get more. It’s how to be content with what you have. The apostle Paul put it this way:

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.” – Philippians 4:12

Interestingly, this verse is followed by one of the most popular verses of the Bible which also happens to be one that is most misunderstood…

I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13

I Can Be Satisfied
Paul is saying not that he can lift heavy objects, run a marathon, start a business, or any other way this verse has been used. He is saying he can be content in any circumstance, whether with plenty or in need by the power of God. Ironically, this verse is saying that you can be satisfied even if you can’t finish the marathon or your company fails because you know God will always give you what you need.

So, don’t worry about what your neighbor has. God is taking care of you in the way you need right now. Love does not envy. It is content with what it has because God gives us the strength to be content.

Heavenly Father,

You are good and You provide. I know that sometimes that means I won’t have what others have or even what I’d like, but I will have what I need. Help me to trust what You have provided truly is good and give me the strength to be satisfied with it.

Amen.

In Christ’s Service,

Pastor Kurt