Praying With Jesus: Father, Forgive Them
Praying With Jesus - Luke 23:34
"Father, Forgive Them"
“And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments.“
Is it easy for you to forgive?
The answer to that question probably depends on a few factors.
- Who has wronged me?
- What did the person do?
Forgiveness isn’t always easy, yet Jesus tells us to forgive.
One day, Peter came to Jesus and asked Him how many times he should forgive someone who sins against him. “Seven times?” Peter asked. Peter probably thought he was being overly generous to say seven times.
“Jesus will be really impressed with my suggestion.” Peter may have thought.
Jesus’ response probably surprised Peter.
“I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.”
Jesus shows us God’s attitude on forgiveness.
God’s forgiveness is beyond generous. He forgives over and over and over again. This isn’t a license to sin, it’s a great comfort because we are sinners.
In fact, Jesus forgave the very people who were murdering Him on the cross as they were doing it.
Did they deserve it? No. But Jesus still forgave.
Do we deserve God’s forgiveness? No. But Jesus still forgives.
In the end, Jesus grounds the forgiveness we give others in the gracious forgiveness we have received. Just as God forgives us over and over, so we can forgive others over and over. Just as God forgives us of even the most horrific sins, so we can forgive others of horrific sins. When we struggle to forgive, it’s helpful to remember how much and how often Jesus has forgiven you.
Forgiveness and a Change of Heart
Jesus, being God, is able to instantly forgive even the greatest sin and immediately relent from His anger and love the person. It’s not always that easy for us.
Forgiveness is the intentional, grace-based decision to release a person from the debt of their sins against you, mirroring God’s mercy rather than seeking revenge. It’s not a feeling. Forgiveness is a choice of the will (an act) to obey God and show love to the person, but it is often made while feelings of hurt, anger, or pain still exist.
We can forgive and then seek God to help us deal with the hurt, anger, and pain, which may time a long time. We can forgive and then seek God for wisdom regarding boundaries in our relationship with the person. But forgiveness is the first step.
Forgiveness is release.
You are releasing the other person from a debt to you. You are also being released from the chains of bitterness and anger.
But also notice that Jesus prays for the Father to forgive the people. This can and should also be our prayer. Just as we have been undeservingly forgiven by God. So, we pray that the other person, by grace through faith, would be forgiven by God as well.
Let’s pray…
Heavenly Father,
It can be hard for me to forgive people. Yet, I know you have forgiven me of so much. Help me to forgive others as you have forgiven me. I especially ask you to help me forgive the following people whom I struggle to forgive, […]. As I forgive them, Lord, please heal me of the hurt and anger and give me wisdom to know what boundaries are appropriate.
Amen
As part of your devotion time, I encourage you to also pray for at least some of the following:
- Your family
- Your local church
- Your pastor
- Some of your fellow church members
- The people on your B.L.E.S.S. list
- Your country and her leaders
- Your community
After praying for these people, you may want to finish your devotion time with the Lord’s Prayer…
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. They will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever and every. Amen.
In Christ’s Service,
Pastor Kurt

We wait.
Waiting is not easy, but it is for the best.
Sometimes we pray for others while we are with them. Sometimes we pray together in a worship service. Sometimes we pray together before a meal or in family devotions. Sometimes, though, we pray by ourselves, alone…in secret.
This doesn’t mean that we should never pray in public.
If Your Faith Is Just Strong Enough…
These are the words of a father desperate for his demon-possessed son to be made well. He had brought his son to be cleansed of a demon, but Jesus wasn’t there, just nine of the disciples. So, he asked the disciples to help. The disciples tried and failed time after time for hours.
Sometimes, when we pray, we have doubts about whether God can or will help. Maybe we are wondering if anyone can help or if it’s completely hopeless.
Suffering isn’t fun. No one really wants to go through a tough time, but sometimes we need to.
Any parent whose had to give some tough love to their child understands. You’d rather not have your child go through the pain, but you know that if they don’t their life will be much worse. A little pain now…sometimes a lot of pain now…is worth the result of their life being turned around.
I remember my son and daughter’s baptisms. I’ve always loved baptisms because of the promise God gives us that through baptism. He will give us saving faith. It’s a victory over satan! God has brought another person into His kingdom!
Absolutely!
God knows what is best for us and that is what He gives us. Sometimes a million dollars would hurt us in the long run or draw us away from Him. Sometimes we need to stay in at a job we don’t really like so we can minister to someone there or learn patience or maybe it’s not about us but about how it will affect someone else in the future… Who knows? Well…God does. And that’s why He gives the gifts that are truly good.
Are we asking God to help us?
Instead, prayer is more about us being transformed by God to be more like Him. As He acts, we can see that His will is better than ours. His will is good and pleasing. His will is perfect. Not only can we praise God for His goodness, but our minds start to be transformed to think more like Christ, or at least trust that God’s will is truly good, pleasing, and perfect.
Let’s start by identifying what temptation is. Temptation isn’t a sin, itself, it is that push to sin. It might be a thought that nags you or it might be a person who is leading you down the wrong path. We haven’t sinned…yet, but we’re thinking about it or being pushed towards it. Here’s how God describes it in the book of James:
None of us can say that we’ve turned to God in prayer every time we’ve been tempted or that we’ve always fought off the temptations and avoided sinning. We haven’t. Yet, even then, you can turn to Jesus in repentance and be forgiven. That is also God’s promise!