Daily Devotion – I Was Only Joking
The Other Six Daily Devotion - Proverbs 26:18–19
"I Was Only Joking”"
“Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death
is the man who deceives his neighbor
and says, “I am only joking!””
Humor is one of God’s good gifts.
A shared laugh can strengthen friendships, lighten a difficult day, and remind us not to take ourselves too seriously. Some of my favorite memories with family and friends are filled with laughter.
But Proverbs reminds us that not everything said in jest is harmless.
Have you ever heard someone make a cutting remark, only to follow it with,
“Relax. I was only joking”?
Perhaps you’ve even said it yourself.
Sometimes those words are offered because the joke simply didn’t land. More often, though, they’re an attempt to escape responsibility for something that really did hurt another person.
Proverbs paints a vivid picture. A man recklessly throwing flaming torches and arrows would leave destruction wherever they landed. It would make little difference if, afterward, he claimed he hadn’t meant any harm.
The damage would already be done.
Our words can work the same way.
Sarcasm can become a way of expressing anger without admitting we’re angry. Teasing can cross the line from playful to hurtful. Humor can become a disguise for criticism that we wouldn’t dare express directly.
That’s why wisdom asks more than,
“Did people laugh?”
It also asks,
“Did my words build others up, or tear them down?”
One of the things I find very disappointing is how so many sitcoms, especially sitcoms for kids, is mostly just sarcasm and insults dressed up as humor. Kids pick up on that and soon their language is laced with insults and stinging sarcasm.
That doesn’t mean Christians should never joke or enjoy playful conversation. Joy and laughter are part of God’s good gifts. But wisdom reminds us that love should shape even our sense of humor.
The Apostle Paul encourages believers to speak
“only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4:29).
That principle applies whether we’re speaking seriously or laughing together. If you realize today that your words have wounded someone, don’t hide behind, “I was only joking.”
Instead, do something much wiser.
“I’m sorry.”
Own it.
Apologize.
Seek forgiveness.
That kind of humility does far more to strengthen a relationship than pretending no harm was done.
Let’s pray…
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the gift of laughter and the joy You bring into our lives. Forgive me for the times I have used humor carelessly or hidden hurtful words behind a joke. Help me to speak in ways that encourage rather than wound. Give me humility to admit when I have caused pain and courage to seek forgiveness. May my conversations reflect both truth and love, bringing grace to those who hear them.
Amen.
As part of your devotion time, I encourage you to also pray for at least some of the following:
- Your family
- Your local church
- Your pastor
- Some of your fellow church members
- The people on your B.L.E.S.S. list
- Your country and her leaders
- Your community
After praying for these people, you may want to finish your devotion time with the Lord’s Prayer…
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. They will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever and every. Amen.
In Christ’s Service,
Pastor Kurt

When people hear the word church, they often think of a building. Others think of an organization, a denomination, or a worship service on Sunday morning.
God did not intend His children to live the Christian life alone.
Three days.
In a fallen world, bitterness takes many forms.
Some divide people by nationality or culture. Others divide them by social status, education, politics, or religion. We decide who belongs and who does not.
A man who is deaf and has a speech impediment is brought to Jesus. Taking the man aside from the crowd, Jesus touches him, looks up to heaven, sighs, and says, “Ephphatha,” which means, “Be opened.”
You can read reviews before buying a product or ask friends for recommendations before trying a new restaurant. You can watch videos of someone visiting a place before planning your own trip.
There, God has already shown us how deeply He loves us. David invites us to
Freedom is one of those words that everyone likes, but not everyone means the same thing by it.
That might seem like a strong word, but he chooses it carefully. Whenever we believe our acceptance before God depends on our performance, we become slaves again. We are never sure whether we have done enough. We are always measuring ourselves, always wondering if God is pleased, always trying to earn what Christ has already won.
Every now and then you’ll hear someone say,
God’s standard, however, is not “better than average.”
You might say,
Imagine someone drowning in the ocean.
It didn’t take long, did it?
Jesus echoes this lesson when He teaches us to pray,
We judge success by what people accomplish and evaluate character by what we can see. We often assume that if we can fix outward behavior, we’ve solved the problem.
But we are in no position to judge God’s Word because our minds, hearts, and emotions are all corrupted by sin.