Daily Devotion – Angry Words
The Other Six Daily Devotion - Proverbs 15:1
"Angry Words"
“A soft answer turns away wrath,
but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
You can often feel it before you even speak.
Something irritates you. A comment lands the wrong way. A situation builds, and there’s that moment — right before you respond — where you know your words are about to carry more weight than usual.
Sometimes it comes out sharp. Quick. Stronger than it needed to be. And once it’s out there, it’s hard, if not impossible to pull back.
Proverbs gives us a picture that’s almost painfully simple. A soft answer can calm things down. A harsh one tends to do the opposite. It doesn’t just express anger; it multiplies it.
You’ve probably seen that play out in real time. A conversation that could have stayed manageable suddenly escalates. Not because the issue changed, but because the tone did.
One response can shift the entire direction.
This is where wisdom begins to work in the moment, not just in reflection afterward. It recognizes that there is a choice before the words come out.
- A pause.
- A breath.
- Then, a different response than the one that feels most natural.
A soft answer doesn’t mean pretending nothing is wrong. It doesn’t mean avoiding truth or ignoring real issues. It means choosing a way of speaking that doesn’t pour fuel on what is already burning.
That takes restraint. It also takes awareness, especially when emotions are already high.
And if we’re honest, this is an area where we often fall short. We replay conversations later and wish we had said it differently…more calmly…more carefully.
That’s not a small thing. Words spoken in anger can leave a mark.
But this is also where the Lord meets us with more than instruction. He meets us with patience. He gives His soft answer.
He is not quick-tempered with us. Nor does He respond to our failures with harshness. Instead, He speaks with truth and mercy together. This is our Lord who was silent before Pilate like a sheep before his shearers. Ultimately, His answer was the cross, not for you, but for Him.
And as we receive that from Him, we begin to reflect it, perhaps imperfectly, in the way we speak to others.
So today, pay attention to those moments when frustration rises.
Not after the words are spoken, but right before.
That’s where this proverb lives.
- Pause
- Breathe
- Pray
Then, let Christ guide your answer.
Let’s pray…
Heavenly Father,
You know how quickly I can speak when I’m frustrated or angry. Forgive me for the times my words have stirred up conflict instead of bringing peace. Teach me to pause and pray before I respond. Give me a calm and gentle spirit, even when situations are difficult. Help me to speak truth with care, and to reflect Your patience in my words. Guide me in those moments when it matters most.
Amen.
As part of your devotion time, I encourage you to also pray for at least some of the following:
- Your family
- Your local church
- Your pastor
- Some of your fellow church members
- The people on your B.L.E.S.S. list
- Your country and her leaders
- Your community
After praying for these people, you may want to finish your devotion time with the Lord’s Prayer…
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. They will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever and every. Amen.
In Christ’s Service,
Pastor Kurt

Most people hear this commandment and immediately think, “Well, at least I haven’t done that.”
But more often, it looks ordinary.
What I remember was that one point, the jeep got stuck on the top of a hill. We got out to figure out what we were going to do…and I looked up. I think I saw every star in the galaxy in that moment. That image has stuck with me for decades
He believed the Lord.
Jesus enters the synagogue again, and this time the tension is already there.
In the middle of all this, Jesus withdraws and appoints twelve men.
Not gone. But quiet.
So when you feel like God is distant, you are not alone.
Clothing does more than keep you warm. It also shapes how you are seen.
Which means your identity is not something you are constructing. It has already been given.
It’s a simple picture.
That applies in more places than we might expect.
This commandment sounds simple—especially if we hear it as something meant for children.
So this commandment calls for wisdom.
Hagar is alone.
And His seeing is not passive. He doesn’t just observe from a distance. When God sees, He acts.
As Jesus returns to Capernaum, a crowd gathers so tightly that no one else can get in. Four men bring their paralyzed friend, but instead of turning away, they go up to the roof, open it, and lower him down in front of Jesus.
Jesus calls Levi, a tax collector, to follow Him. Levi leaves everything behind and does just that. Soon after, Jesus is eating in a house surrounded by tax collectors and sinners.