Praying With Jesus: Change My Heart
Praying With Jesus - Romans 12:2
"Change My Heart"
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is -his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Why do we pray?
Are we asking God to help us?- Are we trying to manipulate God into doing what we want?
- Do we want to thank and praise God?
- Do we just want to talk to our Savior?
The truth is we probably have prayed for all these reasons at one point or another. However, here’s something to consider…
Prayer is less about us trying to change/persuade God and is more about us being changed by God.
When we pray, by definition, we are admitting that we can’t handle things on our own. We must humble ourselves and remember who is the source of all Good things.
Oftentimes, God’s answer to our prayers includes changing us. Think about it.
If prayer were about getting God to do what we want, we would be making God more like us. God is good and He is perfect, but our will isn’t good or perfect. So, if He became more like us that wouldn’t be good.
Instead, prayer is more about us being transformed by God to be more like Him. As He acts, we can see that His will is better than ours. His will is good and pleasing. His will is perfect. Not only can we praise God for His goodness, but our minds start to be transformed to think more like Christ, or at least trust that God’s will is truly good, pleasing, and perfect.
We can even pray for God to change us.
Prayer has a natural way of changing us, but it is also good for us to consciously and intentionally humble ourselves and ask God to change our hearts and minds to be more like Him. What a wonderful prayer to think and act more like Jesus!
Add to that spending time reading and studying God’s Word in the Bible and listening to His Word preached, and we have a good foundation to push back against the pattern of this world and by transformed by the renewing of our minds.
Let’s pray.
Heavenly Father,
I have many needs and desires. I pray that You would provide for my needs, knowing that You are the giver of all good things. I also pray that You would make my desires line up with Your desires. Change my heart, oh God. Transform me that I might see Your will, which is good and perfect, and glorify Your name
Amen.
As part of your devotion time, I encourage you to also pray for at least some of the following:
- Your family
- Your local church
- Your pastor
- Some of your fellow church members
- The people on your B.L.E.S.S. list
- Your country and her leaders
- Your community
After praying for these people, you may want to finish your devotion time with the Lord’s Prayer…
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. They will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever and every. Amen.
In Christ’s Service,
Pastor Kurt

Let’s start by identifying what temptation is. Temptation isn’t a sin, itself, it is that push to sin. It might be a thought that nags you or it might be a person who is leading you down the wrong path. We haven’t sinned…yet, but we’re thinking about it or being pushed towards it. Here’s how God describes it in the book of James:
None of us can say that we’ve turned to God in prayer every time we’ve been tempted or that we’ve always fought off the temptations and avoided sinning. We haven’t. Yet, even then, you can turn to Jesus in repentance and be forgiven. That is also God’s promise!
One thing I’ve learned from writing blogs is that you have to be short and sweet. If the blog post is too long, people don’t make it all the way through…or they don’t read it at all. Hopefully, I’ve done a decent job of keeping these posts short.
That’s not so easy.
When we put these two ideas together, loving our enemies and praying for them, we are left with one option. To actively pray for the benefit of those who are trying to hurt us. It isn’t always easy, but it is exactly what Jesus did for us…
That’s good, but there are other times we should pray, too.
Sometimes, there are things God wants us to pray about, which we don’t or even cannot know about. So, He places it on our hearts to pray. It may be something specific, like for Mrs. Farber to feel better, or maybe just a name.
The passage above is something Jesus said to a Samaritan woman He met at a well. In this conversation, Jesus breaks all kinds of norms for the culture. Normally, Jews didn’t associate with Samaritans. Also, Jewish men didn’t typically speak to women in public, even their own wives. Now, Jesus is about to upset the applecart again as He answers her question.
Yes, it’s good to gather for worship and pray in a church worship service, but this isn’t the only place to worship and thus not the only place to pray.
Have you ever thought to ask God what you should pray for or how to pray about something?
I meet with a group of pastors once a month to share what is going on in our ministries and lives and to pray together. In addition to praying for prayer requests from the pastors, we often allow our prayer time to be guided by a passage of Scripture.
Jesus says the Father is listening, cares, and does act.
And, make no mistake. God does act.
The Christian faith is interesting. It is both personal and social. We talk about a personal walk with Christ, about personal devotions, etc., but Christianity is also inherently social and corporate (group). Our faith was never intended to be lived out in isolation. Even God is Trinity and the three persons of the God-head communicate with each other.
In some cases that may be praying with our family or sometimes we may pray with a friend in need. If you are one who typically doesn’t pray with others, I want to encourage you to try it out this week. Whether it’s with family, friends, or anyone else, find a time to pray with someone…not just what we do in our church service.
Today’s passage is probably very familiar to you. It’s the part of the Lord’s prayer that deals with forgiveness. I find it amazing that this is part of the prayer Jesus taught. It not only tells us what we ought to do but reveals something about God. It shows us that Jesus wants us to confess our sins and that He WANTS to forgive us.
Who would be better to turn to in order to change our hearts than the one who gave us a new heart? He is the one who said He will always show us a way out of the temptations we face. So, turn to Him.