Praying with Jesus: Prayers of Lament
Praying With Jesus - Psalm 22:1-2
"Prayers of Lament"
“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning? O my God, I cry by day, but you do not answer, and by night, but I find no rest.”
Have you ever had a terrible day…or week…or month?
What did you tell God about it? Did you tell Him anything?
I remember talking with a guy, I’ll call him, “Alex,” here. Alex had been going through a very difficult time. He was not only feeling worn down and helpless from this struggle, but mad. He was mad that God wasn’t removing the struggle.
I think he was expecting me to say something about how it was all happening for a reason because he seemed rather surprised by my response.
“Have you told God?”
“Of course! I’ve told Him what was happening and begged Him to help.” Alex responded rather upset.
I replied, “No, I don’t mean you told God about the problem. I mean have you told Him how confused and mad you are that He’s allowing this to happen?”
“No. You aren’t supposed to complain to God,” he said, a little confused.
“Really?” I said. “Why not?”
Alex isn’t alone. I’ve talked with many people who thought this. We’ve been taught by our parents, coaches, and others not to complain and we have assumed that means we can’t express our confusion and frustration to God. We see it as being ungrateful and lacking faith.
Psalms of Lament
Yet, read through the Psalms guess what you are going to find…Laments. A lament sounds a lot like complaining and a lot like confusion and frustration.
The passage for today is from Psalm 22, but the first part of it is probably more familiar to you as the words Jesus spoke from the cross. He was reciting Psalm 22, a lament Psalm.
Yes, even Jesus lamented to God.
Perhaps you have felt anguish and frustration, but also felt like you can’t express that to God. You can.
- God already knows. So, your thinking it or expressing it to others, but holding it back to God isn’t keeping God in the dark.
- God wants you to turn to Him. Over and over in the Scriptures, God tells us to turn to Him in every situation.
There is, however, one more important thing to note about the Laments in the Bible.
The lament isn’t just a complaint. The lament is always accompanied by a statement of faith.
Yes, it’s,
“God! Why are You allowing this? Why aren’t You helping?”
However, it’s also,
“Because I know that You are good and mighty. I remember that You lift up the meek and care for those who suffer. So, I will wait on the Lord.”
If you think about it, the frustration happens because you expect God to act. So, the statement of faith is natural. It also reminds you of who God is. It reminds you that you can trust God, even through the suffering.
Jesus is well acquainted with suffering. The Father forsook Jesus on the cross because Jesus took all our sins. Jesus endured that so that you would not be forsaken, and as a child of God, you never will be.
Take a few minutes to read the rest of Psalm 22.
If you are struggling right now and feel frustrated (or in the future if it happens) don’t hold it in. Turn to God. Pray a lament. Maybe pray a Psalm of lament. He will listen.
Heavenly Father,
I know that you are a good and loving Father. Yet, there are times I go through suffering that I don’t understand. Honestly, it has made me mad. Help me to turn to You in those times. Help me to be able to express my frustration, but do so in faith, knowing that You care for me and that You are my hope and my salvation.
Amen.
As part of your devotion time, I encourage you to also pray for at least some of the following:
- Your family
- Your local church
- Your pastor
- Some of your fellow church members
- The people on your B.L.E.S.S. list
- Your country and her leaders
- Your community
After praying for these people, you may want to finish your devotion time with the Lord’s Prayer…
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. They will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever and every. Amen.
In Christ’s Service,
Pastor Kurt

Prayers “from the heart”
Praying the Psalms
I remember when my son, Eli, was born. Unfortunately, due to some complications in the pregnancy, Eli was scheduled to be born a little before his due date.
We have a wonderful gift in prayer. God tells us to bring everything to Him in prayer and He promises to listen. It’s good to bring your cares, worries, troubles, and confessions to Jesus. It’s good to pray for others. It’s also good to give thanks and lift up praise to God. Indeed, He deserves all praise, honor, and glory!
I love giving things to my kids. I like giving them gifts and making their favorite foods. However, I also know that I need to limit these things for their own sake, so they don’t become spoiled or have health issues. If I offered my son pizza and ice cream every day 3 meals a day, he’d probably be OK with that (Hey, I’d like to join him in that), but I don’t do that because I know it isn’t really showing him love. He needs protein and veggies, even if they aren’t his favorite.
What if we ask for something which, in the end, would harm us or lead us away from Him? What if we ask for God to harm someone else who angered us? God isn’t our personal genie, nor does He want to give us things that would harm us or others.